Keeping the Heat in Your Relationship
Posted by Administrator on 9/14/2017
Relationships can become bland at some point. It could be that you see your partner every day but can’t spend quality alone time with them anymore. The bedroom that was once full of passion is now only used for sleeping. You no longer sleep with them but next to them.
Monotony in a relationship cannot be helped sometimes, though, especially given the daily grind. In many cases, romance is placed in the bottom of the priority list after work, children, chores, and finances. Maintaining intimacy will require effort, for sure.
Fortunately, there are numerous ways to spice things up again. Perhaps you want to want to revive the passion you once had or want to build a deeper connection. Either way, there are means to achieve that, including the following:
Buy adult toys together
Don’t feel embarrassed when shopping for sex toys online as many couples do it all the time. Besides, you will undoubtedly get turned on when you purchase stuff that you’ll be using or wearing in the bedroom. There are the typical dildos and vibrators for you to choose from but you can also try the more adventurous items if you’d like. Maybe either of you has a fetish or kink that the other doesn’t know about or hasn’t explored yet. This would be the perfect time to get those handcuffs, whips, gags, collars, restraints, and other things that float your boat. It doesn’t hurt to give them a try. Nothing like some BDSM to experiment on, right?
Visit a strip club together
Did you think that foreplay was limited to your home or bedroom? Well, you’re highly mistaken as heating things up in a new place can work wonders for your sex life. This is especially true if you decide to fan the flames in an exciting venue like a gentlemen’s club. The sights, sounds, and atmosphere in a strip club can be a turn on.
If you want, you can book a VIP booth or table so you can have a sense of privacy for your seduction plan. In a private booth, you may be able to get away with some sexy or naughty stuff. Under the table negotiation, anyone?
Some couples find it thrilling to get turned on in public though. If you’re one of them, go ahead and sit in front of the stage and watch those strippers perform up close.
Become more spontaneous
Your relationship will get more exciting when you know that you can hook up at any time. Yes, it’s still important to plan a date night and do wholesome activities together but you don’t have to follow a schedule all the time. Surprises can be good every so often so you might want to invest conscious effort there too.
You can start by whisking away your partner in the middle of the day to a motel. Or, you can go on a spontaneous trip. Pack your bags and drive to the next town. The journey will give you a chance to communicate and get yourselves in the mood. Then, you can drown each other in passion when you arrive at some love hotel.
Spicing things up need not be an uphill climb. Start with easy stuff like the points suggested above. They don’t require that much effort though you’ll need dedication to maintain your intimacy. Get going with keeping the heat in your relationship already.